refactor(subprocess): the dispose ladder moves to its one consumer

SubprocessHandle loses dispose(graces) and SubprocessDisposeGraces: the
stdin-EOF→SIGTERM→SIGKILL sequence is teardown POLICY encoding one
consumer's cooperation shape, not process vocabulary — the seam keeps
kill/terminate/waitForExit, and waitForExit(signal?) is the quiescence
probe a consumer ladder needs. dsh-subagent-acp owns disposeAcpChild()
over those public verbs (tier tests move into its suite; a never-exits
stub pins the fail-loud path); dsh-subprocess-local sheds the ladder,
its deadline import, and the dsh-timeout dependency. Every future
backend now owes four verbs and no teardown policy. New bilingual
ladder-ownership Agent Note records the decision; catalogs regenerated.

packages/subprocess/subprocess-local/README.i18n.yaml

@@ -2,5 +2,5 @@
 # side as of the last confirmed-consistent state. Both languages carry equal authority;
 # after editing either side, bring the other along and re-record with:
 #   pnpm run verify-translation-pairing --write
-README.md: 08cc2ce7d92569222b99992d0f4c43551a2c9623
-README.zh.md: da230ba37d406a6ad4ec669ceead45f2c2dd7069
+README.md: 16d83032ebf271a3e3e091962cad6dc9b689f072
+README.zh.md: e9a1284a81269741909631a6fbac8af3549800a3