refactor(cli): parse dsh argv through one Commander adapter

Replace the dsh CLI's three hand-rolled parsing idioms (raw argv[0]/includes
dispatch in bin.ts, per-mode node:util parseArgs in headless.ts/web.ts, and the
bespoke parseResumeArg scanner in dsh-app-boot) with a single Commander adapter
in apps/cli/src/args.ts. parseDshArgs resolves argv into a discriminated
DshInvocation union; bin.ts switches on the mode and dynamic-imports the chosen
module, which now consumes already-parsed values.

- web is a real subcommand; --host uses choices and --port an argParser range
  check, moving validation into the parser.
- --resume rejects empty and repeated forms; --prompt rejects empty; a config
  positional after --prompt and a root flag placed before web fail loud.
- adds --help/--version; removes parseResumeArg from dsh-app-boot.
- new apps/cli/tests/args.spec.ts (apps/*/tests added to vitest include,
  apps/cli/tests to tsconfig.host.json); the tui-agent keyless PTY smoke covers
  bin.ts dispatch end to end unchanged.

packages/ui/app-boot/README.md

@@ -5,7 +5,6 @@ Shared boot glue for the app bins ([`dsh-tui-demo`](../../examples/tui-demo/READ
 | Export | Role |
 |---|---|
 | `resolveConfigPath(path, snapshotMode, cwd?)` | Absolute config path; `snapshotMode === 'replay'` swaps a `cordis.yml`/`.yaml` basename for its sibling `cordis.snapshot.yml` |
-| `parseResumeArg(argv)` | Split the `--resume <id>` / `--resume=<id>` flag out of the arguments, returning `{ resumeSessionId, rest }`; a valueless, empty, or repeated flag throws so a mistyped resume fails loud instead of silently starting fresh |
 | `loadEnv(binName, dir?, warn?)` | Load the gitignored `.env` (Node `process.loadEnvFile`); absent file is fine, an unloadable one warns a single labelled line (default: stderr) |
 | `installFailLoud(binName, proc?)` | Turn a post-`boot()` unhandled Loader rejection into one labelled stderr line + `exit(1)`; returns the uninstaller (for tests) |
 | `assertEntriesLoaded(ctx, binName)` | Throw when a settled tree holds an enabled entry with no fiber (a plugin module that failed to import) |