refactor(session): drop the dead mutable SessionSummary

SessionSummary (updatedAt/title/firstPrompt) and SessionPersistence.update()
were dead state: zero production callers of update(), no production reader of
updatedAt/firstPrompt, and ACP's title comes from a tool-call presenter, not
storage. The live Session.header was already typed SessionHeader, so the
summary only ever existed in the persistence layer, written and read by nothing
but its own contract test.

Delete it entirely (no SessionMeta alias — SessionMeta collapses to
SessionHeader everywhere). This removes the JSONL .summary.json sidecar
machinery, the SQLite title/first_prompt/updated_at columns and per-append
updated_at bump, and the update() method from the abstract service and both
backends. SQLite SCHEMA_VERSION goes 1->2 and openDatabase now rejects any
non-current user_version (older or newer) — no migration, unreleased software.

Net -400 lines, and it erases the JSONL-sidecar-vs-SQLite-column durability
divergence that the upcoming write coordinator would otherwise have to model.

Records the decision in docs/rfc/implemented/2026-06-19-drop-mutable-session-summary.md
and migrates the 2026-06-14 session-persistence RFC's facts to current truth.
Adds a standalone AGENTS.md section "Tests document behavior, not golden truth"
(a passing test pins current behavior, not necessarily correct behavior) with
the summary-drop as its worked example, and reinforces the no-migration
pre-release stance.

packages/session-persistence-sqlite/README.md

@@ -6,9 +6,9 @@ A SQLite durable session-persistence backend — a second `SessionPersistence` i
 
 ## Storage model
 
-Each `SessionEvent` maps 1:1 onto a row in an `events` table `(session_id, seq, type, time, data)` — `data` is the event payload as JSON text, so the row shape is the event verbatim (including `assistant/chunk`, keeping `seq` contiguous). Out-of-log metadata (`SessionMeta`) lives in a `sessions` row, including the mutable `SessionSummary` fields (`updatedAt`, `title`, `firstPrompt`) that `update()` rewrites without touching the event log. A `sessions` row is written only by the first `append` — its existence is the lazy-materialization signal (`has`/`list` report exactly the sessions that have a row), so no separate column is needed.
+Each `SessionEvent` maps 1:1 onto a row in an `events` table `(session_id, seq, type, time, data)` — `data` is the event payload as JSON text, so the row shape is the event verbatim (including `assistant/chunk`, keeping `seq` contiguous). Out-of-log metadata (`SessionHeader`) lives in a `sessions` row. A `sessions` row is written only by the first `append` — its existence is the lazy-materialization signal (`has`/`list` report exactly the sessions that have a row), so no separate column is needed.
 
-The repo targets Node ≥ 24 (the root `engines` field), which includes the stable `node:sqlite` module. The database opens with `foreign_keys = ON` (so `ON DELETE CASCADE` drops a session's events with its row) and `journal_mode = WAL`. The table-layout version is stored in `PRAGMA user_version` and checked on open: a fresh database is stamped with the current `SCHEMA_VERSION`; a database written by a newer, incompatible build (higher `user_version`) is rejected rather than opened against an unknown layout.
+The repo targets Node ≥ 24 (the root `engines` field), which includes the stable `node:sqlite` module. The database opens with `foreign_keys = ON` (so `ON DELETE CASCADE` drops a session's events with its row) and `journal_mode = WAL`. The table-layout version is stored in `PRAGMA user_version` and checked on open: a fresh database is stamped with the current `SCHEMA_VERSION`; a database written by any other, incompatible build (a non-current `user_version`, older or newer) is rejected rather than opened against an unknown layout — there is no migration (unreleased software).
 
 ## Contract semantics over rows