fix(hmr,include): settle a failing boot instead of a silent exit 13

Master's transactional loader made the invalid-provider PTY case regress:
the HMR main watcher's initial scan refreshed the include mid-initial-apply,
the concurrent group updates stranded the include fiber, and once serialized
the failing apply's rollback deadlocked on HMR's refresh drain — dsh exited
13 with no diagnostic and the terminal stranded, the exact symptom this
branch fixes. Serialize every include child-tree mutation through one queue
and pass ignoreInitial to the HMR main watcher; the failing boot now settles
through boot()'s labelled rejection with the tree disposed and exit 1. The
PTY case asserts the settled diagnostic; the fail-loud release remains the
guard for rejections boot cannot see.

packages/ui/app-boot/README.md

@@ -23,7 +23,7 @@ Shared boot glue for the app bins ([`dsh`](../../../apps/cli/README.md), [`dsh-c
 
 Loader settlement rejects import and lifecycle failures with the failing entry and stage; `boot()` disposes the partial context and wraps that failure with the bin name. Entries settlement leaves behind are audited separately: `assertEntriesLoaded` turns an enabled fiber-less entry into a rejection naming every unresolved plugin, and `assertEntriesActivated` awaits each failed fiber to include its original stack in the startup rejection and names each pending entry's unresolved services. Before throwing, the audit marks those exact rejection reasons through one process checkpoint so `installFailLoud` coalesces Loader's duplicate notification while every unrelated unhandled rejection remains fatal.
 
-The Loader mounts entries concurrently, so a surface can already own the terminal when a sibling entry rejects: exiting straight from the handler would leave raw mode, bracketed paste, and the keyboard protocol set on the user's shell, and an in-flight terminal query's reply would land as literal text at the next prompt. A terminal-owning bin therefore passes `release` to dispose the tree — running that surface's own shutdown — before the exit commits. `dsh` captures the root context in `boot()`'s `prepare` hook rather than from its return value, because the rejection arrives while `boot()` is still in flight. While a release is in flight the handler stays installed and latched: the first rejection is the reported one, and later rejections (teardown's own included) are swallowed rather than becoming uncaught and killing the process mid-teardown.
+The Loader mounts entries concurrently, so a surface can already own the terminal when something else fails: exiting without the tree's own teardown would leave raw mode, bracketed paste, and the keyboard protocol set on the user's shell, and an in-flight terminal query's reply would land as literal text at the next prompt. A config-tree failure settles through `boot()`, whose disposal of the partial context runs the surface's own shutdown before the labelled rejection. For the rejections `boot()` cannot see — a plugin's detached async work rejecting during or after mounting — a terminal-owning bin passes `release` to dispose the tree before the exit commits; `dsh` captures the root context in `boot()`'s `prepare` hook rather than from its return value so the hook covers the whole mounting window. While a release is in flight the handler stays installed and latched: the first rejection is the reported one, and later rejections (teardown's own included) are swallowed rather than becoming uncaught and killing the process mid-teardown.
 
 Bare plugin specifiers in a config (`@deepseek-ai/dsh-*`, npm packages) resolve through the Cordis Loader's internal module loader. Repository bins install Loader's optional `node-addon-require-builtin` peer; external callers must supply it or install plugins where plain Node import resolution can find them. Relative specifiers resolve against the config directory without the native helper. The built `dsh-app-boot` artifact embeds the statically mounted Include implementation while leaving Loader external, so the include tree and host bind to one Loader peer. The `dsh` source launcher additionally maps manifest-declared workspace packages to their TypeScript source; its configuration gate requires every TUI/Web bare plugin to appear in the resolver manifest's `dependencies`. The bins' subprocess smokes exercise the internal-loader path, while this package's unit suite drives `boot()` in-process against configs with relative specifiers.